Thursday, November 14, 2013

Veterans Day Letter Response

I read the letter posted on Facebook written by a father who kept his child home for Veterans Day when he should have been in school.  I supported that father 100%...until he felt the need to bring Martin Luther King into it.

If you want to keep your child home on Veterans Day, then by all means do it.  But invoking the MLK card, the letter became nothing more than a racist rant.
Ask yourself this: Why did he choose MLK day? Why not Columbus Day?  Here’s a holiday with all sorts of question marks attached to it.  I guess if we want to celebrate the “discovery” of the Bahamas, by all means, take the day off.  (Although I don’t really understand how someone can discover a populated island, but that discussion is for another day.)  In fact, why compare it to any other holiday? Wouldn’t the letter have made just as strong of a point had the writer simply omitted the part about MLK Day?  I mean, it is about the Veterans isn’t it?
I think the clincher was the comments the original poster made.  Something to the effect of “keep your race card in your pockett..It’s worn out” (yeah, 2 t’s on pocket...nice).  What the poster clearly doesn’t understand is that comment alone made it completely about race.
Let me tell you something.  Most Veterans in this country would look at this posting for what it really is: the ranting of a frustrated boy  (I say boy because you really can’t call someone a man until they have earned that title through their actions.) Most Veterans know exactly what the author was trying to incite by posting it.  This guy doesn’t care about Vets.  He cares about making a political point under the guise of supporting Veterans.
Find a war Veteran who served in combat, and have a talk with him.  Try and get him to open up about his experiences in the war.  Good luck.  Most of them keep the bad stuff inside.  Rarely will they even open up to their own family.
My dad served in the South Pacific during WWII.  Growing up, we would ask dad about his war days and what it was like.  He would never say a lot.   Occasionally we would hear stories about how he befriended a lizard in his tent that would sleep in his cot.  Funny stuff.  Nothing serious.  As I grew older, I thought my dad must not have done much during the war.
After us kids had grown, the family all got together for Memorial Day.  One of us thought it would be a good idea to go to the Veterans Home to pay our respects.  It was a nice day, and the grounds at the Illinois Veterans Home in Quincy are beautiful.  Carol and I walked to the WWII memorial.  If you are not familiar with the memorial, it has all the names of all the people from the area that served in World War II.  Going down the long list of names, sure enough, there was Master Sergeant Dean S. Johnson.  I beamed with pride. 
As we were reading all the names to see if we recognized anyone else on the list, I noticed Dad walking by himself toward the Memorial.  We gave him his space as he intently browsed the names.  Soon dad stopped.  And as I glanced over, with his hands on his hips, I saw a tear rolling down his cheek.  He was viewing the name of an old friend from Quincy who was killed in action.  It was one of the most poignant moments of my life.  My dad didn’t talk about the war because he didn’t want to talk about the war.
A few years later, I made the mistake of listening to some blowhard talk radio host complaining about a TV station that wasn’t going to show a modern military movie without commercial interruption.  Evidently it was being simulcast on several different stations at the same time.  He went on and on about how it is every Americans duty to watch these shows.  I asked my dad what his opinion was about this.  My dad was a very smart man.  He understood that this clown radio host didn’t give a rat’s ass about the Veterans, he only cared about stirring things up and selling advertising.  His two part answer was short and sweet.  He said “most Veterans he knows wouldn’t watch a show like that, because it was far too realistic.”  He added: “we fought in the war hoping that our children and grandchildren wouldn’t have to.”   As his eyes welled up, he paused, relaxed, and didn’t say another word.
I didn’t ask him anything else.